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I have things to say, so many things to say. Let me begin by saying I am not a bitter woman. I believe in relationships and love and finding the right one. However in my current state, SINGLE, I have taken a step backward and started observing...Wow. There is a lot going on out there, the train is flying by and for some reason I cannot get on it. I see settling. We are settling, fueled by loneliness and fear, we settle. Why is single such taboo? There are so many perks to being single, I actually enjoy it. I know there will be sceptics but I want this to be a forum of real discussions about behaviors both men and women. Let's get real in here, You have a gripe bring it, you have been hurt, talk about it, you are angry...then hit "caps lock" and let it rip.  There are methodologies for all sciences and art. Let's create one for dating, one for marriage, one for meeting people. Let's come up with some structure to the madness and figure this all out together...Are you with me?????